IN BETWEEN - Part 3

In a quest for the things that will actually matter once school is done and we are trying to figure out what to do next - something to pour ourselves into that will make a difference somewhere. Here are my last three in a list of nine things that we can do to keep our skills sharp and to continue to stay relevant in our respective fields:

7. Continually go back to the stuff learned to keep it fresh. 

We learn a lot of stuff in school and sometimes it feels like drinking from a fire hydrant. But there are some things we come across that resonate with our interests, passions, and abilities. Go back to those things. You know you took better notes in those classes than any others. 

Reread your notes. Relisten... (so I was not an English major) to those lectures. 

Do whatever you need to in order to keep the most important things fresh in your mind.  

8. Establish milestones for personal progress. 

Every good CEO, manager, leader of some kind, has a way of measuring progress. Track who you have coffee with, travel to a region where the language you are learning is spoken. Find ways to gauge your progress.

I know a guy who wanted to read more so he set a goal to read one book a week for a year. In his first year doing this he did not read 52 books but he did read 41 and that was way more than the previous year. He set that goal fifteen years ago and in the succeeding years he has taken up that goal he has met or exceeded the goal.

9. Don't lose sight of those who are helping and supporting you through this. 

Be intentional about face time with family friends who are giving you a break on rent or paying for your car insurance or phone bill. Maybe it is your parents or a family friend; be sure they know you appreciate what they are doing for you.

That is all for now. For a look at the first three in our list click here; and for four through six click here. Good luck, and 

Just a Meandering Thought...

CHRISTMAS REFLECTIONS - Herod

Herod the Great

One of the key players in the story of the arrival of God the Son on earth is King Herod. Although his part seems minor in the whole story and he is often overlooked I wanted to take a closer look at this man. The Bible refers to him as King Herod, history knows him as Herod the Great.

Herod was born in 73 b.c. to an Idumean man named Antipater and a woman named Cyprus who was the daughter of an Arabian sheik. Antipater became a political ally to Julius Caesar, for which he was rewarded with an appointment as regent and received the Roman citizenship in 47 b.c. He soon secured the appointment of his son Herod as governor of Galilee. 

In time despite his political savvy, Antipater was killed. But with some Roman help, Herod killed his father's murderer and was named king of Judea by the Roman Senate in 40b.c. By 37 b.c. Herod had crushed all opposition to his rule with Roman help. He was wealthy, politically gifted, intensely loyal, an excellent administrator, and clever enough to remain in the good graces of successive Roman emperors. He also patronized the Jews by directing money to their cities and towns. He remitted taxes on the people when the times where tight, and when a famine struck in 25 b.c. he melted down his own gold plate to pay for bread and other supplies for those who were in in need. The Jews never really accepted Herod because he was appointed as king by the Romans, yet he was not Jewish himself. Although his father had been a pious man and sincerely worshiped the Jewish God he was not Jewish so the Jews thought of him as impure and unacceptable as their king.

Caesar Augustus

Toward the end of his time as king he became suspicious to the point of paranoia of everyone around him including his own family. He executed his own sons, Aristobulus and Alexander, whom Antipater, his son by Doris, had accused of plotting to kill him. He also murdered his favorite wife Mariamne, her mother and later, his eldest son Antipater who was accused and convicted of having prepared poison for his father and executed. Before Herod died he gave orders to have the men of influence in the country arrested and brought to the hippodrome at Jericho and slaughtered as soon as he had passed away. He knew that no one would shed a tear when he died but he wanted to be sure that tears where shed when he died. His orders were not carried out and instead the Jews celebrated his death. Caesar Augustus, the Roman Emperor, who for years had confidence in Herod, finally acknowledged that it was safer to be Herod’s pig than his son.

When I think about the neurotic paranoia that Herod displayed towards the end of his time as king, the extreme to which he went to be sure his throne was secure, I have to wonder why God sent his Son when he did. Jesus could have arrived just a couple of years later and had the same impact. Maybe his father could have had cold feet and delayed the marriage for a season or two. Why did God send his son to the doorstep of a delusionally paranoid ruler? Of all the places and all the times Jesus could have arrived why at a time when the ruler of the region is likely to do whatever it takes to keep is kingship intact, including murder?

Upon reflection, I suppose God demonstrates that no matter how difficult the circumstances appear on the surface, no matter how unlikely the desired outcome seems, God is present in the difficulty and the darkness. When the angel appears to Mary, he says the baby who would be born would be called Immanuel, which means God With Us. God came to earth when times were tough so that humanity could feel his comfort in those tough times. God did not come when it would be easy, He did not come when he could have all kinds of fame and global name recognition through social media. He did not come at a time when there was some assurance that he would not face difficulties or challenges. He came in dangerous times, to no name parents, in a small hamlet of a town in an undesirable region.

All this so that you and I could know that no matter how small or seemingly insignificant we feel, and no matter how overwhelming the challenge may seem, God can say I know what it is like, I've been there. Whether it is cancer, or a pink slip, or another week of not knowing where your next paycheck is coming from the God of the Gospel is Immanuel. 

Jesus arrived at Herod's doorstep so that we could be assured that we won't go through anything that God himself would not also go through. Not only that, but He says he will go through it with us.

Just a Meandering Thought...